Girls Need Love?! Knowing Your Worth Cup of Love!

Oh Hunny, you are worth it all! Do not start to lose yourself in things and/or people! Knowing your worth is game changing. I found out my self worth the hard way. I was in a relationship that I lost who I was trying to please another. It is so easy to do because you think you are being devoted and trying to make a person happy that we will fall back on what truly matters to us. Once my morals became something I was willing to compromise, I knew it was time to gain control of who I was. I called it, "Taking My Power Back!" I began to stop accepting anything. I found my voice and wasn't scared to use it anymore. My voice was heard loud and clear even if the tears rolled down as I said what I felt. I thought of the fact that when you restrain from saying how you feel, the other person usually gives no cares of saying exactly what they feel. This in turns make you sit and think of all you should have said when you had the chance to. Things are bugging at you, but they are going along with life carefree. That alone tore me up because I started to hold on to so many burdens of how others treated me. And as you know enough pressure will bust a pipe. Well Baby, I was the pipe and I exploded on any and everyone. When I tell you any one could have gotten it, ANYONE! I started to become someone I was not, I was so mean and mean to everyone. I had to gain control and gain it fast. I was so angry with myself for not saying anything that I started to say too much and this all came from the lose of me in others! Trying to find who I was in the worst way. Someone that cared enough about me, noticed that I was changing and they had a very well spoken conversation with me. In this conversation, it was informed that I shouldn't allow another person's behavior change who I am. They straight up told me that this new found person was not a good look on me and I need to seek God for guidance and focus on me. They said, you can be who you are and say how you feel without feeling the need to be mean. And lastly, they informed me that I need to know my self worth then No One will ever be able to bring me to a worthless state again.

Whew Chile!! That hit me and hit me hard. First thing, I prayed! Lord, please give me the strength. LORD, GIVE ME THE STRENGTH! That was it. That is all I needed. This prayer still leaves my lips every so often. Just those six words have gotten me through so many anguishing times. I slowly started to build myself up. I started to choose my words and say how I feel about things in the nicest way. I stopped taking anything and started accepting what I choose to deal with. Sheesh! Read that again ladies!!! Stop taking anything and accept what you choose to deal with. I was worth more than what people felt my worth was! No more, no more, no more! Since then I have been feeling worthy of it all. Yes I have times of low points but I remind myself, you are worth it!

To you, I say, Know your worth queen and stand firm on it. If people around you can not accept that then I am pretty sure you don't need them. You will look back on the past and realize you were cashing your bills for pennies!! Bills being your self worth and pennies being whomever didn't appreciate you for you! You are strong! You are worthy! You are it queen PERIODT and don't let no one tell you otherwise. This self worth goes for any relationship; significant other, family, friends, etc. The people closest to you find it easiest to misinterpret what you are worth! Don't fold hunny! When your value is appreciated, your happiness will never waver in any relationship!

Signed with Love: Your Kindred Spirit